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Why I never complain about the dice

From:   Phil Simborg
Address:   simborg@mohrpartners.com
Date:   27 March 2004
Subject:   Backgammon Articles
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This article has been posted at many tournaments and helps promote good
sportsmanship.

Phil


                 WHY I NEVER COMPLAIN ABOUT THE DICE
                           by Phil Simborg


Here is why I NEVER complain about the rolls, or luck:

1) It's rude.  It suggests your opponent is just lucky and detracts from
   his skill.  It's poor form.

2) Nobody cares.  Everyone is tired of hearing it.  Everyone only sees
   their own bad rolls and forgets their great ones.

3) It's NOT TRUE.  Everyone rolls the same.  If you think you are rolling
   more than your share of bad rolls, you're probably playing badly and
   not realizing it ... because the worse you play, the more bad rolls
   there are and the more good rolls you give your opponent.  This also
   applies to complaining about the on-line servers.  No machine cares or
   knows who is rolling or what the position is.  The dice are random, and
   every study done on every server so far has proven that.  The dice are
   just plain goofey everywhere ... it's the nature of statistics that
   sometimes you will get a bunch of doubles in a row, or dance 5 times on
   a 2 point board.

4) Complaining focuses your mind and energy on the wrong things.  You
   start concentrating on how bad you are rolling, or how good your
   opponents roll, instead of what you really should be concentrating on:
   what is the right decision?  And if you start thinking about your bad
   luck, you might start changing your plays assuming you are going to
   roll bad, or that your opponent might roll a joker, instead of
   considering what really matters:  the odds.

5) Complaining makes the game less enjoyable.  For you.  The more you
   make an issue of your bad luck, the more you will remember the bad luck
   and the less fun you will have playing.

Bottom line, I NEVER complain about a roll, or bad luck.  Ever.  And I am
sure my opponents appreciate it, and I am sure I play better and am
happier as a result.  And when someone tells me how lucky I was, I give
them my standard reply:  "Yes, I was lucky I got you for an opponent!"
 
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